如果你们都真心决定开始这场异地恋爱，那么是把所有的一切开诚布公的时候了。这样，谁都不会再觉得对方虚情假意鬼鬼祟祟。相互讨论你们是否可以和其他人浪漫约会，你们多久该通话联系，是否在某些特定时候你们二人需要会面，以及你们所关心的各方面问题。

    Set a Limit

    设定限制

    You do not want to end up waiting forever, so set a limit to your LDR. If neither of you arewilling to agree on a place to settle and start having a relationship where you see each otheron a regular basis, then you can pretty much forget about accomplishing anything in therelationship. If your partner truly loves you and wants to be with you, then they would notwant to wait forever either. If you're both eager to stay together, then set a date for gettingtogether.

    你一定不想永远这样等待下去 ......